YE HOLY OF HOLIES WHO SEE TO THE NEEDS OF THE STARVING AND POOR

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It is time for beautiful girls to evolve a hitch, to have hobbies that are noble, pastimes that benefit the planet. It is the year we beauties should begin doing CHARITY work that makes us stand out in our community. For instance, why not MOONLIGHT in import export. You end up feeding thousands in villages where today 29,000 babies die daily of hunger. Or, here's one, Give PARTIES to raise funds for this work or for something else, Tsunami quake or DROUGHT orphans. YEMENI SAUDI GENOCIDE ORPHANS. This will really help your social life. When a very upscale man whom you meet raising funds learns about your work, you will immediately go to the top of his list. BEATLE PAUL MET HEATHER THIS WAY.
 Don’t do GOD’s work for that reason though, because you can’t flim-flam GOD. You know that thirty thousand children used to die each day of the week of starvation on our planet, the United Nations tells us that it is down to 28,000. Oh goodie. Well let's make it NONE. You can change this death statistic. Start doing some form of import/export with third world villages.  Read every chapter of the 120 free seminars at LUCK IN LOVE dot com and read the VULTURE SANDWICH PAGE. Lots of hints there.

I used to own, run the BAZAAR FOLKLORICO Import shop on the Sunset Strip. My employee, the MASTER JULES learned import/export from me then (I had to stay in Mexico with four babies,) but JULES went on to  become a multi millionaire in JULES BUCCIERI Antique Shop on Melrose/ Robertson in the Decorators’ Area. He discovered, then invited the internationally famous Yogi Bhajan to start his career in America teaching Yoga in the huge renovated six car garage of that shop. Bhajan built l00 ashrams across the world off that antique shop! I became Bhajan’s astrologer after I returned to USA with four children.

To this day I look for good third world artisanry -- seeking contact directly with the artisans and I hand these contacts to my students in the FREE "LEARN-TRADE" SEMINAR.. Online, I met Father Joseph who funds an orphanage in Tamil Nadu province of INDIA http://www.bethanychildren.plus.com/ Using their handicrafts would be the perfect starter kit for a charismatic, cottage industry which a smart urban girl could do, wholesaling BATIK squares for pillow fronts to your local boutiques. But study the design page so he doesn't send those brown and red splotches. CONTROL DESIGN. 

Not only would your importing efforts get you out meeting people but it would mean rice, butter, eggs, milk for those abandoned children. These are Orphans with no mother, no father. Perhaps as newborns they were given away by starving peasant parents --during famines....I don’t know. I didn’t get the details. ASK HIM! This province TAMIL NADU is not wealthy. It is rural. Maybe disease hit and killed a single mother...you can ask Father Joe the circumstances that prevail there, the economic conditions of TAMIL NADU. Where that horrendous school fire was last year. 

The nice thing is Father Joseph is online! So are the orphans and they do the MUCH ESTEEMED (by designers,) BATIK artisanry that westerners would enjoy, for pennies really...getting themselves FOOD. For instance, they do sea shells and BATIK fabric (for your pillows)? OWNING one would be A POWER LUCK TALISMAN for your living room. CONNECTING with Father Joe and putting a few dozen pillows in that local boutique near you.... wholesaling them to the stores of your city without taking profits....(hey you make nice pals in the boutiques,) would be a SECOND 'ACTION-TALISMAN' that brings power/luck. Getting a few of these POWER ACTIONS into your vibration is the WAY TO REALIZE YOUR DREAMS. BECOME A HERO!

                   

                 "I built a few orphanages in Argentina

              I had know poverty as a child. Viva Juan

              PERON who let me do it." Evita Peron

CONSIDER the realization of dreams a kind of KIT. When you fill up the kit, flat, sword, banner, armor, you become someone ALL DECKED OUT and ready for THE CRUSADEs kind of like a medieval knight in silvery armor, loaded for bear! Or like a modern day Joan of Arc. YOUR LOINS are GIRDED! You are MIGHTY. 

Just a little country girl but I got the
occupying ENEMY out of FRANCE!

 

As a metaphysician researcher, I've read books for years on HOW TO REALIZE YOUR DREAMS, how to change your luck, HOW TO MAKE GREATNESS happen. How to get that HEART/MIND fusion that carries you like a cork so you float on any tide. 

I've studied Werner Erhard's famous E.S,.T (later the FORUM,) thru one of their trainers, the Master Jules. They do the famous 400$ weekend. I've transcribed chapters for the MASTER JULES where he passes on the lessons he got. SO my feeling on how to get powerful, get that FIRE IN THE BELLY which makes you move forward and not get hung up on trash, bad boys, slothful habits, time-taking, time-wasting people or pursuits....to stay on the SUCCESS HIGHWAY. WINNERS walk the talk. They practice what they love. They do the work. 

TO BE A WINNER: we gotta:

1.) DRESS like a big shot. Not out of vanity, no! Not out of a desire to attract someone who's impressed by well dressed Armani suited up people. NO! But because SUCCESS FINDS someone who is wildly stylish, imaginatively accessorized and who walks in beauty and every second is aware that she is a goddess walking in the privilege of beauty AND artistry with a briefcase full of pictures, images of the school in Yemen or India,i.e. her 'line of merchandise.'. We look like a CEO but we're beauty to the eyes. We reek success and when success finds us, we will be powerful and can do great things, like FEED ORPHANS.  Like have tycoons eating out of your hand and making donations to daycares in your skid row area. (Latch Key kids belong to immigrant, single mothers.). So jeans are OK but put an unlined power blazer over them, some jewelry, great flats, skimmers. No clogs, dangling chandelier earrings, (hoops are OK, buttons are better.) Exude elegant,subdued CEO POWER.

2.) TAKE IN ALL THE ORGANIC POWER YOU CAN. MAKE POWER FOODS YOUR RELIGION. Carry pumpkin and sunflower seeds to nosh on when you get the munchies. At mealtime, go for healthfood. WE MAINTAIN OUR YOUTH and NEVER age if we eat cress salad, spinach salad, at American cafes. Eat tofu at Chinese cafes. Liver and onions once a month for B12. No calorie saturated waste space food like flour, milk. YOGURT is a fine way to enjoy milk, cuz it has four magic cultures if you get the right brand. RAW honey on top or your amazing kiwi lemon or raspberry orange magical home made power jams.

3.) BE JOAN OF ARC EVERY SINGLE MINUTE! WALK IN THE HEADSET of "I AM motivated, I dream big dreams, my dreams are INTERESTING," I AM not interesting, it's what I SEE, ASPIRE that is interesting, I am nobody. BUT I HAVE the hugest aspirations! That is a power gear. BE IN THAT GEAR of realizing you are volunteering to be nothing more than the finger on God’s hand, when BIG PEOPLE come at you, you won’t get scaredy cat or awed. Subtract yourself, your ego, your fear of being thought strange, out of  the ordinary. Subtract SELF. BE UN-SELF-AWARE but have this BUG up your ass, this HOLY, COSMIC BUG! That means care about what you care about. Be passionate. Stopping the TORRENT of 30.000 babies a day starving to death. Finding a way to create international commerce that targets the poor people in poor villages. After all, you sell pillow fronts, right? BE JOAN OF ARC OF THE PILLOW FRONTS; maintain the head trip as you walk thru life, of I HAVE A MISSION, rather than I HAVE a sense of WORTH, sense of my own VALUE, sense of my own IMPORTANCE. THAT mission is what attracts SUCCESS. THE HOPING that others will ADOPT the mission!

Talk to powerful strangers. Don’t be a shy fool. Be brave. Maybe even open the conversation. Make friends with men OR WOMEN that you choose whom you appoint as GURU, PHD, TEACHER. Wave your talents under the nose of the head guy. Once as a kid, the Head PHD wanted to meet ME and I was too shy. First week of Freshman year at UCLA, the head of the theatre arts Dept, Dr. Melnitz for whom MELNITZ HALL, MELNITZ Theatre (on campus there,) are named, to this day ----- said to me 'aren’t you Szendrei? I see your name on list. You --the daughter no you must be grandaughter of Alfred? ? Yes I said. That was my gramps. Melnitz says “I knew him in Germany before the war. Yes. that's the right guy. conducted Leipzig Opera. Wrote all these operas and 13 books on History of Jewish Music that Hitler burned". So THIS BIG GUY picks me out, asks me to COME TO HIS OFFICE! I go. We're in this huge book lined place. He wants a chat, do I love Opera? Why Theatre Arts? He's curious but I'm 17, scared, vulnerable, wondering what this powerful old (60 yr old) head guy with glasses wants out of a l7 yr old girl....so our conversation went nowhere. I was limp as a fish cuz I WAS A COWARD! And that was way before the days when mothers primed little kids about ‘strangers.’ No excuse for my fears.I didn't go anywhere with this immortal man who just wanted to be AVUNCULAR.A GODFATHER! I'm kicking myself ever since! DR MELNITZ picked me out of a huge class room?I want to bitch slap myself.

Gals gotta learn the bravery to SHOW UP LIKE you are JOAN OF ARC. She was 14 when she crashed the court, demanded KING fight the Invaders but she damn well showed up, brave as a 25 year old man. I can imagine she talked her piece with any who'd listen. OF COURSE she had AIMS. HOPES, DREAMS at l4. SO DO THE SAME! Volunteer for challenging chores that FORWARD THE EVOLUTION. Cram into your brain the lesson, we are INVINCIBLE we CAN WALK ON AIR, you, soul, me, together, with INTENTION and sacrifice ..we can develop our magic powers. Watch the APPRENTICE and see what looks odious on film, what weasle habits are beneath us and which we might aspire to. 

Camille Paglia or one of those women around her, ANNE ROIPHE maybe….wrote a book on TEACHING YOUNG WOMEN to be daring. Does anyone remember who that was that wrote the fearless girl book? She said that parents have to teach GIRLS to be fearless, brave, take chances which entirely goes against the grain of the REPTILIAN BRAIN to hide the young impregnable female and barter her off at the top price. THERE IS NO WRITTEN LEGACY of that “TEACH BRAVERY” theory of behavioral cultivation anywhere in modern writing that I know of. Roipe is probably the only one. I ran into that book ten yrs ago via a book review, was impressed but .....the newspaper was On a floor where it picked up cat urine so I never saw it dry again. Forget name book/ author. BIG MISTAKE. YEARS I've wondered who wrote it, what was its title. It was the time Camille Paglia was getting big and she, I think, mentioned it. She recognized in it, the germ of an idea about stimulating the BRAVURA and DARING that few women ever go with. We’re unconsciously programmed NOT TO! The book had a lot about parents teaching it to their daughters. BUT walk this road in your mind. Dare, Attempt, GO, talk, BROACH THE SUBJECT, OPEN the door with your own hand. KNOW the keys that work. USE THEM!

4.) LIGHT THE FIRE IN THE BELLY! MEN have this fire on the natch. It may be programming, of course. WOMEN have to work to get it. There is a METAPHYSICAL side to developing and sustaining a fiery AMBITION for the highest peak of human experience, or even money, I won't rule that out.. The Master JULES wrote on inculcating that smoking hot FIRE IN THE BELLY. Click on that. For me, a good way would seem to be prayer that GOD feels you with SASS and you BUST OUT! But I BELIEVE POWER SOULS are alive in the afterworld and SOUL POWER is available from talking to your Dead Granny. Light a candle, say “Dear Eugenie or dear ELENA (My Grannies) God, make me audacious, make me brave. Help me to know how to OPEN a conversation, to consciously ‘network’. Put me where I can direct the flow of evolution and help you to move things forward. MIND practice that is directed toward a higher power, the UNIVERSE's SOUL. THE MIND of the universe. That BIG DADDY --if you want to look at it that way. What's odd is that during such MIND DIRECTION, you will get flooded with sudden OCEANIC well-up of "HIGH" as a sixties kid I can only call it a HIGH, like a LOVE TIDAL WAVE that hits you when you touch THAT HIGHER BEING. AND BOY does it hit. It is like somebody turned on all the lightbulbs in your soul in one second! Your jaw drops.

5.) PASSION - Many of us become so spiritually developed that we are beyond the troublesome world of passion and emotions. But as Saints, we can 'invite these two bad fairies back to the table.' Cuz we can handle them if we're saints. PASSION for what? What hobby? Selling batiks to boutiques, design and manufacture of other items, maybe an art form like painting, clay. Ceramic shops galore with kilns out there. Learn to turn a pot on a wheel. Make vases. EVERYONE needs a good jug for a bouquet. I look at thrifts for 40's vases, with two little handles, or used to when I drove more. Now my local thrift within illegal tag distance of my house is VERY GENEROUS with low prices of .29c on paperbacks and a buck on 40's items and i live in the sticks, L.A's San Fernando VALLEY! BUT A PASSION YOU HAVE, right? INVITE IT BACK if it's not beer and chips! OR invite passion to come for your new pursuits. Being EVITA! 

6.) DREAMS - PARENTS regularly ridicule dreams. The kid's head is resting on his hands, the elbows on table, kid is staring off into space dreaming of that new motorcycle, or that Pierce Brosnan is dating her! But reinvite the "bad fairy of DREAMING" to your slower moments. Say, IN THE BATHTUB, soaking, consciously dream of telling PIERCE all about Father Joe's ORPHANS. Dream of meeting ...well, JFK JR is gone, so...WHO? But you get the idea. Dreams have a catalytic effect on the passions. They awaken them in case you're so BUDDHIST you no longer have seedy passions. The combination works to create a future reality. IT fuels the fire. Now, MOTHER TERESA didn't do that. She focused on the here and now, never thought I want to be the most famous NUN, but was focused on starving babies full time!. And she prayed to God all the time for each child, then prayed for a means to save all the children and she got it. God listened. She was in a hellhole: Calcutta.We are not. Soour fundamental passions are not stirred as deeply. I'm well familiar with YOGA teachers, students of the spiritual teachings who get so blessed out, (I call it yinned out) and in tune with the grande OM that the very OM HOLE (nothing, absolute blank,) engulfs them and they become EGOLESS. THEY go into NIRVANA and bypass the planet entirely. Well, that’s no good for you! HAND photos of starving children all over your bulletin board. CUT OUT EVERY emaciated Biafran kid in the newspaper! PRAY, have an altar, and pray for luck at fixing all this, Lst, Dreaming, passions....they keep you grounded. You are a flowhole for action, money, important people moving to save the situation. Some may say grounded means mired in the mud. Well, LOTUSES grow out of the MUD! So do apple trees, so do MONEY trees.

7.) HANGING with TYCOONS AND VOLUNTEERING TO LEARN IT ALL – FIRST, HOW DO we meet the success people? a.) HAVE INTENTION. The intention is to make friends with the guy, then LEARN from him. The way the DONALD teaches those assistants. You gotta go to big parties. HUGE. NOT IN SIZE. HUGE in who's THERE! Charity events, THE BIG GOLF (UGH!) Tournaments at the park. THE YACHT CLUB where the billionaires recreate in groups. 

b.) SECOND WAY, EDUCATION AND MANNERS. To actually navigate a MEETING with one of these HERD BUCKS, you must DEVELOP a fascinating, cute way to introduce yourself, get the guy's attention. THE MEET CUTE GAMES are something you really have to master. Billy WIlder gave us this term. (Director of SOME LIKE IT HOT, also wrote the 50 films he did,) Billy said that when man/woman met on screen, it had to be absolutely WILD and unique. He had Claudette Colbert meet Ray Milland in one film where she is grabbing pajama bottoms at MACY's sale and he grabs the TOP. And neither will give up their piece. Later I believe you see them in the garments so I"m guessing she had hold of the pajama TOP! 

YOUR “MEET CUTE”with ANYBODY you want to target at a huge party. (and our girls go to BIG CHARITY FETES,) might be the “informal poll” gambit. Cute, snappy, SMART and non-invasive, slightly probing, shows a lot about who the two of you are. So you can nudge this total stranger with your elbow and say with droll wit, "Say, mister, on your list of TEN things you'd hate to eat tonight, what would we see?" Or "if you had to find ten people here you'd never want to be stranded on an island with, start picking." And then volunteer your person, the one you sighted in the crowd that you'd never want to be stuck with." THE probe gambit is endless in the form it could take. "So, you think BOLTON will RUIN THE United Nations for us? You know what gets me, is that the international papers are covering all of the things BOLTON EVER did. Maybe they didn't know before, now they know he's a real bum, a lout....GAD, you'd think BOLTON WOULD BACK OUT! HE WILL NEVER get any respect. And why would BUSH pick such a monster? for the UN? Isn't that a statement on what THE BUSH GANG feels about the third world?" Or is the U.N. even a true rep of the third world. Rumor has it, the ROTHSCHILDS own and run it as a way of creating a one world after all government that suits them where they HANDILY GATHER ALL TAXES FROM THE WORLD, RUN A "ONE WORLD AFTER ALL" GOVERNMENT and ADIOS all traces of ETHNIC CULTURE.  ARTICLE ON THIS HERE. Such astuteness from a wee cutie like yerself will be the KEY to get in thru ANY DOOR in any tycoon's mind! He’ll ask you if you’re going for your PHD in Political Science. Say, “I wish. College is 20k a year. Where would I get an extra 20k? But I am trying." He will help you attend college. By the way, there’s a very cute novel you should read, you can get it for a buck at abebooks. “TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT” about a gal who gets a zillionaire to put her thru college.

THEN WHEN YOU HAVE MET YOUR TYCOON, NEVER PRATTLE SANCTAMONIOUSLY! Do not start on the starving babies/ charity rap as if you’re admonishing the tycoon to give to the Red Cross. Don’t yammer on and on about the planet’s starving children. You must vow to never become a preachy, over-reachy, prattling, tattling, nervy, noisy thorn in his side. Let your Mother Teresa side be a surprise, like a buried pecan in the final, dessert course. Later, at your house, he’ll notice the photos of dying babies on the wall. The designs for the Import/Export guy. Let him think you’re Heather Locklear until he finds that pecan and realizes you’re Mother Teresa in drag.

SMART TALK THAT IS ALLOWED is stuff interesting to him. Talk about current events which for some reason utterly fascinate men. They are on top of every story in the news. Know in particular, every single controversy in the papers at any given moment. Where two sides are at odds. YOU gotta research the side of the angels, (but learn to recognize the Fascist arguments, as they always are in the same form, you hear them on ABC talk radio.) BUT FOR the true side, the true scoop LISTEN to the radical LIBERAL left wing, i.e. to FM and in particular, PACIFICA RADIO on your little PC while you're in the house. FILL YOUR TANK on ANGEL THOUGHT, you can supply your conversations with breadth, depth and MEAT. LIST OF GOOD RADIO SHOWS you can SURF TO, right here, (EVERYTHING UNDERLINED INTHIS PIECE IS A LIVE LINK, AN URL.) I love AMY GOODMAN show, out of New York. Google her name.  You can touch on some very controversial things in current News and be on theright side if you listen to her. Read this ARTICLE on the art of engaging a tycoon’s mind. CONVERSATION 101.

NOTE: MINDS don't get to be healthy, huge and SAINTLY without stuffing good stuff in them! WE ARE WHAT WE EAT. And we are who we listen to or know, we absorb nutrients from PEOPLE. Their advice, their friendship are a series of impressions and IMPRESSIONS are a kind of food, too. 

c.) Learn the Art of the Opening Salvo. Target that buck then CUT THAT BUCK out of the herd. Target the one you know is CEO of X company, or maybe cute enuf to tolerate as a BF. TARGET the guy. Then elbow sideways into him, look up and let loose your “MEET CUTE” OPENING statement. 

NOW....you cannot do this if you have not been practicing for months on other guys at other places. YOU HAVE to know you have pulled out a DAMN TOMMY GUN. Not a cap gun. YOU HAVE to know that in your hands, the meet cute opening line is like a CANNON SHOT over their bow. GUYS are gonna stand up and salute. Problem is, in practice sessions, you are going to fell more soldiers than the Brit NAVY! WHATTAREYA GONNA DO with that many men who think you are snappier than Admiral Horatio HORNBLOWER? 

Well, as all saints and goddesses need will power, that isn't a problem. YOU are gonna toss them back into the ocean.That's all. You are going to see who among them can take you to the REAL ROYAL PALACE PARTIES, the rest are chaff. You are EVITA on a mission. YOU ARE IMMUNE to hot boys. YOU ARE NOT gonna get hung up on the pretties. ANyway, TED BUNDY was real pretty so you are not gonna get close to these M#(%*(@#*#RS because who knows who he is? 

C.) ONCE THE TYCOON is your buddy, you're going out to lunch, (I always say 3 lunch dates with a man before you ever go on a dinner date as they buy you dinner the louts figure they own you,_)...you start asking him. WHAT ABOUT BOLTON? What does he say about BUSH? TRUMP? You ask, what about OIL IN VIETNAM. Was it the reason for that war? So how did VIETNAM forgive us for 3 million dead and now let us in? AND let capitalism in??? You will want to read up on that issue.

MEET, and next, always BRAIN-DRAIN TYCOONS. They are the bright lights! They didn’t get to run Corps with borrowed gas. HAVE CONVERSATIONAL THEMES of vast IMPORT up your sleeve to tempt them into the fray. He’s probably feeling like GRABBING your chest but SHAHERAZADE HIM. Your mouth is so much more interesting! From no man can you learn as much as a BRILLIANT CEO of a huge business. ON your times together, you will pretend you've got a PHD teacher or professor with you. At times, he can carry conversation to other areas, let him. But when he's not, GO FOR YOUR AIM TO LEARN everything there is to learn in this entire world, about HISTORY, POLITICS, MAN's world ECONOMICS, BUSINESS, not only world biz but HIS BIZ, his daily challenges in his particular field. And avoid trite themes: celebs, their gossip/lives; films, food, cafes, fab resorts with food. (UGH!) I have watched high society at lesiure and that is where they go. LEFT to themselves that's all they do, food, restaurants, resorts that have great food, getaways, Paris, Provence, TUSCANY, 250$ a nite inns in rural places abroad with great food. HEY, enough time for that tempting GLITZ BLING world when you're MRS billionaire. Resist it then, too. RICH Men on their own do GOLF talk. BUT YOU be in active mode, curious, alive, questioning, learning, wanting to know about stuff that matters.  Value of the dollar. Hot stocks. (Yes, let him know you dabble, so you gotta study up, the best free training, stock info sites are AT THIS PLACE) the GRANDPA YODA STOCK GURU SITE!

If you follow these 7 listed pursuits, you will climb the high society Power mountain so fast you'll be startled. You'll realize that heavenly power is assisting you cuz how could one little gal get superhuman so fast? SO THAT leads me to the last thing you must do to SET THE RUBY OFF, the RIGHT SETTING!\

8.) Make your HOME or apartment FENG SHUI. That means it is neat and has POWER features, plants, paintings, vases, COMFORT corners where people are moved to go and sit.
A tea setting, a magazine photo look that is perfectly awe inspiringly GORGEOUS! 

YOUR LIVING ROOM, bath and bedroom must look like JOAN OF ARC or VENUS APHRODITE lived there. A vase, maybe not orchids, maybe just graceful weeds from the alley, Branches from tree. (hammer the stem breaking it into shreds so it drinks the water, lasts longer,) and on the sofa, huge, comfy PILLOWS (from FATHER JOE's orphans?) ....beautiful clean plain colored sheet or textiles on your ancient sofa to cover its grime. AN almost japanese simplicity (or whatever style you like) ....but in order. No personal effects or papers if they aren't cute. The FENG SHUI MASTERS say that clutter offends the GODS. FENG SHUI is about order. LOCATION, In south east corner, a living big plant. (money corner,) FAMILY PHOTOS, I think that's ...I forget which corner. GOOGLE FENG SHUI and let me know. Become a Feng Shui expert and teach me and teach your gal pals, too. Now for the pillows, and might as well import JEWELS from GREAT VENDORS OF  semi precious, forty karat stones with a hanger (you wholesale them to boutiques without chains,) they're 50c to 85 c each from INDIA. Read this file on a Hindu dealer. BHAVANI

You want to do DESIGN control. The reason most imports don't work is .. their taste is in their mouth! Father Joe must be told, no more black/brown. No PILLOW PORTRAITS of Jesus, Buddha, Shiva. They remind one of Velvet Tijuana paintings of ELVIS. You want HENRI ROUSSEAU ORGANIC designs. I've tried to tell him. BATIK is wasted on huge wall hanging portraits even of saints. We can print those with our PC's. 

Batik is so sumptuous and rare, and lovely; combine it with Rousseauesque designs. Small pillow size, single face squares. No need for two sides. If you sew, you don't need back of pillow. DO that in the USA with good clean stuffing! No smallbirds and tarantulas in it. Or let him charge extra, sew two sides together with CORDING on edges, then leave hole for stuffing. 

All of this is a kind of homework assignment. If you're alive, answer. Or, better. TRY DOING THIS for a while and then let me know what happened. This is a kind of SCIENCE experiment. CAN naive AMERICAN FEMALEs grow up THIS MONTH…THIS YEAR…or at leastbefore they GET TOO OLD for it to even matter? 

IT IS A RACE WITH TIME so edit a lot of crap outta your life so that you can focus on THIS! Clear the table. Group just a few goals there, in front of you. Concentrate on them. Know that the Devil will try to tempt you with meaningless fluff, people, pastimes, passions. Timewasters.